20.D Domestic Violence Considerations in Child Support

Domestic Violence Considerations in Child Support Cases

Nothing is more important to us than the safety of our customers. Your child support worker may have already discussed ways we can help you obtain support services more safely. We also want you to be aware of the following:

Research shows that domestic violence is primarily about power and control, and that the most dangerous time for victims can be when they leave their abuser. Requesting paternity establishment and/or child support can signal to batterers that they have lost control for good, and therefore can sometimes trigger threats and/or violence.

If it is unsafe to communicate with you by email or text, please tell your child support worker. If you think you’re in immediate danger, call 911 or your local police or sheriff’s department.

INSERT NAME OF YOUR LOCAL DV AGENCY HERE is our local domestic violence agency: The advocates there can help with confidential advice, safety planning, threat assessment and support. They can also help you apply for a protection order, get emergency housing and/or access other community resources. INSERT WEBSITE LINK FOR DV AGENCY HERE. Phone number is INSERT PHONE NUMBER FOR YOUR DV AGENCY HERE.

Neither our office nor our attorney represents either party in a child support matter. In other words, we don't represent either you or your ex-partner. We work for and represent the State of Wyoming, whose job it is to establish paternity and establish, modify and enforce support orders pursuant to the law.

Custody and Visitation:

1. In paternity cases, a child support order may declare your abuser to be the legal father of your child (possibly giving him more rights to the child that he currently has). 2. Abusers often threaten to and/or do hire lawyers to obtain custody or “50/50” visitation: a. If your ex hires an attorney, we strongly recommend you try to do the same. A layperson going up against a skilled attorney is not a fair fight.

b. If you receive a “Counterclaim” or “Crossclaim” or any other legal document that requires you to answer, you must file an Answer with the court within 20 days. DO NOT WAIT. CONSULT AN ATTORNEY IMMEDIATELY IF POSSIBLE, BUT IN ANY EVENT FILE A


If you need a lawyer:

The Wyoming Coalition Against Domestic Violence and Sexual Assault has staff attorneys that may be able to represent you for free. You need not have been physically abused to qualify for representation. Threats or verbal abuse may qualify. You may fill out the application for these

services at the following link: https://www.wyomingdvsa.org/legal-program Phone number is 307.755.5481.

Information about numerous other resources for those who cannot afford an attorney are available at the following website:

https://www.wyomingbar.org/for-the-public/hire-a-lawyer/modest-means-program SELF-HELP FORMS

You can file requests with the court yourself, without a lawyer. The forms are at the following link:

https://www.courts.state.wy.us/legal-assistances-and-forms/court-self-help-forms/ VOLUNTEER REFERENCE ATTORNEYS

There are local attorneys who volunteer for brief one-on-one visits with community members to provide instruction in filling out legal forms and navigating the court system.

These sessions are generally held twice per month between 2:00 p.m. and 4:00 p.m. at:




You can find the next session here: https://equaljustice.wy.gov/index.php/get-legal help/calendar-of-classes

The Clerk of District Court’s office at INSERT CDC TELEPHONE NUMBER HERE will also know the next Volunteer Reference Attorney day.

Please don't hesitate to reach out if you have further questions. We're here for you when you need us.

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May 1, 2022